Problem: A caretaker notices that a patient is feeling resistant to help or consistently depressed. He can’t think of anything impolite or disrespectful he might have done. The patient expresses no concerns when asked if there’s a problem.

Solution: A cheerful and warm disposition is important to keep when handling an Alzheimer’s patient. Whether it’s merely validating their feelings or acknowledging frustrations, or even joking and singing to get a smile, a patient must understand that you care about them. Try framing questions and especially instructions in a positive way, always mindful of the patient’s comfort.

Problem: A caretaker is tired and stressed out. This attitude seems contagious and begins to affect the patient. The patient refuses to follow directions and puts up resistance.

Solution: Alzheimer’s disease is not easy on anybody, the patient or the caretaker. It is a difficult situation and much patience is needed during this very vulnerable time. If a patient refuses to cooperate, then let him or her say no. You can approach them again later when they are in a better mood. There is nothing wrong with taking a few minutes away from your patient and relaxing. In fact, it is the advisable thing to do in most cases. When you return, you will be feeling better and your patient, maybe in a better mood himself, will be more willing to respond.

Communication between caregivers and Alzheimer’s patients can lead to frustrations. However, with patience and a good understanding of what Alzheimer’s patients need in a caretaker, some of these common frustrations can be dealt with.

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